Expectations
Mood:  cool
Now Playing: Careless Whisper
Last night I and two of my friends had an argument on expectation in a relationship. The question was shud there b expectation in a relationship?

I say YES. Ofcourse there is expectation. Need and exceptations are the two things that keep a relation alive.

For instance, if you are leaving out of station, your friend offers to help u out with luggages and send u off. Your mouth will immediately say, "Y strain urself, I can manage it myself". But ur heart will say "yeah, Thats what i was expecting, please help me". If ur friend says, "OK, fine bye.. Hav a nice trip". U still like him. He is still is friend. There is nothing wrong with what he did. But instead if has said, " No problem buddy, I will b of some help to u.. giv me that black bulky suitcase.. " "TAXI TAXI" .." , then he becomes a bit closer to your heart. And this is just an instance and a simple 1. there are complex expectations and complex relations. I hope i hav not made it complex for u to understand :-).

So the more a person meets ur expectations the more he comes close to u (even if ur tastes are totally opposite).

will b continued ... (got to get my bus , i can't xpect the bus to wait for me.. ;-) )

I know to remember but ???
Mood:  lazy
Now Playing: Right here Right now
A for Apple, B for Ball, C for Cat.... This was taught to me in my kindergarten. I still remember this. I remember them till now. :-D The same with the Maths Tables. So my school has successfully taught me to remember, but how do I forget ??

OK, how to forget( not the alphabets ;-) ). Now this is becoming a problem. There has to be courses on forgeting (unlearning also). I used to forget all the fourier analysis formulas well b4 the exams. So I thought "to forget" is something that comes naturally to me. I even forget most of the b'days and anniversaries i hav to remember :( . But when I try to forget some incidents and mostly people ( not bcoz I hate them , I jus want to forget them ). The more I try to forget, the more I remember. But some how I hav to do it.

So I hav charted out some plans. Here is the outline of the plan.

Diversify my thoughts, indulge in various hobbies. Out of sight is Out of mind. (Even this is getting quite difficult as I keep bumping into ppl whom i wish to forget)

I know ,it is easier said than done.

What do you listen to??
Mood:  not sure
Now Playing: Elevation - U2
U r planning to sleep early and when u r about to switch off the T.V. they telecast one of ur fav movies. If u decide to watch the movie instead of sleeping, there are fair chances that u may be a Heart Listener.

Yeah Heart Listener. Ppl can b classified either as Heart listeners or Brain listeners.

Brain Listener are ppl who c thru things. They r rational. They lives mostly don't hit extremes, they rather travel on smooth roads. They r mostly honest and straight. But their lives are mostly monotonous.

Heart listeners r not rational. Their lives hit both extremes of life. They live life to the fullest, coz they chase their dreams. They take risks. They are passionate. But they can deceived easily.

I think I am a Heart Listener coz I am doing a thing which I more passionate abt instead of doing my office work.. :-D

Possessiveness
Mood:  hungry
Don't dare to touch my barbie/car/bike(toy) !!

Don't dare touch my pencil box !!

Don't dare to touch my bike !!

Don't dare to touch my girl/guy ?? oops I can't say it. I havn't bought it. They are not toys which dance to ur tunes.

When one feels insecure abt his partner (even frnds) they in some way or the other try to secure their position. This is absolutly normal behaviour. It is rather an animal instinct inside us. But in this process we must make sure we dont cut the wings of freedom or hurt others.

(Word of Wisdom: U may feel possessive abt ur love, but possessiveness alone is not love)

Mood:  lazy
Today I read a snippet in newspaper which said Three lions scared off 3 men who were trying to harass a 12 year old girl. The 3 lions stood guard for the girl ( for 6 hrs ) till the police came to rescue that girl. Now who are animals??

Revenge
Mood:  sad
Eye for an Eye.
Tit for Tat.

Revenge

Why do we take revenge?
We take revenge to show them how it felt when we were subjected to the same treatment. It is also done to stop him/her from doing the same again. (But some never change). It is also to warn others that it will be the case if some1 else tries to do something to me and better be careful.

How does it feel after one takes a revenge?
Momentarily we will feel happy and satisfied. But does that make us really happy? One will feel defnly bad abt it after the rage comes down.

So shud not we take revenge?? yes v shud not take revenge. then that makes no difference b/w u and who did it, no matter who did it first. Best way to take revenge is, when u hav got all possibilities for taking revenge and if u leave him unpunished, he will feel low like a worm.

Mood:  hungry
What is darkness?
Its absence of light.

What is death?
Its absence of life.

So what is HATE?
Is it just absence of love??

NO. Hate is totally different from love. One can hate a person and still love him. Sounds wierd right.. But thats the whole point. So you can love and hate a person at the same point of time. Love and hate can co-exist, but not necessarily.

OK, now why do v hate ppl? ( I am still in search of a perfect answer ). Now i put forth a hypothetical answer i hav conceived. U hate others when they dont behave in the way u expected thereby hurting u or do something against your principles. Inspite of all these u admire some uniqueness in the person which breeds in love.

This reminds me of some lines from the song "Hate Me" by Limp Bizkit

"I know why you wanna hate me
Cuz hate is all the world that's even seen lately"

Keep hating and loving...

Fuzzy logic
Mood:  silly
Girls are tricky creatures. They want guys to look at them. But when they look at them they give a look as if she would kill you. If their looks could kill there will be no man alive. They dont understand that every look by a man is an acknowledgement to their beauty. But gals dont understand this. So how to deal it. It is tough ... Is there anybody who could help me in this regard!!!

Mood:  not sure
Color, color what color do u chose??

There are people who are black, who r white, who r blue, etc.. I am speaking about their skin color. I am speaking about the color of the brain. ( I dont believe ppl think with their heart . I will explain this in detail in a few days . I digress .)

For instance I am an orange guy with a grey mask. But I pretend to be grey. I am not going to educate on what every color means. It is for u to find what color r u and the color which is most compatible with u. Some colors go well with all colors. There r colors which will go well with only a few colors. This is what forms relationship. Ppl also change color. For surviving in this highly competitive world (JUNGLE), we need to change colors according to the situation. I dont mean that u must not show ur true color. There r places when u hav to show ur true color.

So start discovering what color u r and try also to find out the color of the ppl around u.

Mood:  surprised
Hi All,
Today I was rather surprised by the market behavior. (India NSE). I lost a few bucks. :-(. It is tough to predict the market behavior, but easier than predicting human behavior. (And in particular girl's behavior). Girls are full of surprises. That’s y they r interesting. If God appears b4 and grants me a wish, the first thing I will ask is to become like Mel Gibson in What Women Want. (Ability to hear what they think.) Though it will drive me crazy, I am curious to know how they think.
I have come up with a new way of categorizing ppl. I will explain the method tomorrow.